Eva came out as a lesbian in high school in 2006 and, for the most part, was supported by her peers. Many gay youth, to the surprise of postmodern psychology, are not suicidal or self-destructive. Eva says that adults are divided, not kids. The inappropriate use of suicide statistics and children to justify male fetish can be found in the literature in schools on anal sex. This bothers gay students as much as heterosexual students. There is a loss of trust and confusion by students who are told to embrace pornographic teaching material. Eva says that kids don’t need that or pride flags.[92] Adult men who cross-dress are allowed to share space with young female athletes; drag queens are advising young lesbians of their cis-privilege; these are double-bind mixed messages. A double-bind is a situation of impossibility. Girls are expected to be careful of strange men and to be on the defense against strange men at the same time. A double-bind message is a message that tells a child to fulfill contradicting ways of being. “Be a child.”/” Think like and adult porn star.” A double-bind will often have an implausible magical solution.

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Magic can be an escape from life’s problems. Queer theory espouses the slogan “Born that way” which is a double-bind that has encourages kids to “come out” safely during high school and university[93] but leaves no room for them to change their minds. The purpose of LGB education programs historically, to prevent bullying and provide a space for homosexual youth to belong, is noble. But it is also good and right to remember that premature sexuality is a red flag that may indicate that a child has been sexually abused or neglected.[94] The idea that genes drive homosexuality is negligible, but temperament may have an impact on homosexual identification.[95]  

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Regarding transsexuals, there are two distinct subtypes of male-identified transsexuals. Members of one subtype are homosexual transsexuals, a type of homosexual male. This is a group of boys who would likely grow up to be homosexual but are labeled as trans by society and are vulnerable to sterilization. The other subtype, autogynephilic transsexuals, are motivated by the erotic desire to become women through fantasy; they are not gay. Sex Reassignment Surgery (SRS) was intended to alleviate the suffering of boys who were classified to be gay under the Kinsey testing method.  

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Due to the Gay Civil Rights Movement and groupthink, media is hyper fixated on victimizing trans identified youth, who may very likely be gay based on good evidence. Based on a historical collective memory of gay men being burned in our streets, it is easy for the media to spin an emotive twist by writing a sympathy piece for a trans identifying Canadian youth. The CBC shared a story about a female trans-identified youth who stood on a podium to tell Canadians that her mother had disowned her. This girl represents the suppressed gay boy of the 1960s, in the collective unconscious of some.  

Other than through her parent’s divorce, something many kids face, this daughter had not been abandoned by her parents as she claimed on the CBC report. This girl was a prop for a global cultural change called ‘transgender kids’; children are used this way to prop the interests of the wealthy queer lobby.  

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An article in Gender Dissent provided another side to the story. The parents still love and support their daughter emotionally and financially while she is attending university.[96] The mother had been going along with the changes her daughter had made for herself right up until her daughter began seeking body alterations that could destroy her fertility, maim her healthy body, and potentially end her life. However, they never stopped paying her tuition or being there for their daughter, as the CBC reported. 

 

If a boy is told by his peers that he “plays like a girl”, will a teacher also question whether or not the child is a boy? Boys must be affirmed in their maleness, and girls must be affirmed in their femaleness. Gay boys are no exception. Gender variant youth are identifying as transgender in clusters of friendship groups, where kids are not getting proper assessment before hormones and surgery are implemented.[97] “The sense of being different and feeling isolated have long been identified as risk factors for suicide or self-destructive behaviours in gay, lesbian or bisexual teens.”[98] Being cautious is still the protocol, but how to support gay kids is evolving; they are not the suicidal cohort painted as such in past literature.

 

Let’s empower the youth again!